Seen on Facebook:
The first to apologize is the bravest.
The first to forgive is the strongest.
The first to forget is the happiest.
Hmmm, I love the first two, but that third one bears some thought. I think we should remember what has been done to us. If we've been mistreated, we need to keep our guard up to prevent it from happening again. If we've been loved, we need to remember who was there for us.