"...and he eats for a day. Teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime."
Sometimes, those of us working in the helping fields forget this. A client pulls our heartstrings and we jump in to "save" them. Now please don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that helping people is wrong. It's not. But there's a way to help people that is for them. And there is a way to help people that is more about you. It's important to know the difference.